Most parents come to me because they feel like they are repeating themselves all day long. “Put your shoes on.” “Come to the table.” “Please stop hitting your sister.” “We are leaving in five minutes.” Nothing happens. Then you say it again. Still nothing. Eventually your voice gets sharper. Maybe you yell. Maybe you threaten consequences you never wanted to use in the first place. Afterwards you feel frustrated or ashamed, wondering why something so simple turned into a batt

Parenting is always evolving, and some trends that once felt helpful now create more stress than support. As we move into 2026, let's release habits and beliefs that no longer serve us or our children. This is not about having done things “wrong.” It is about making room for approaches that build connection, steadiness, and compassion in everyday life. 1. Being an Instagram-perfect Parent The pressure to present a flawless family life on social media has pushed many parents t

“The timer goes off. You say, ‘Okay, all done iPad.’ Your child’s face changes. He clutches the tablet, screams, begs, maybe even hits. You wonder, ‘What have I done wrong? Did I raise him to be this way?’ If this feels like your home, take a breath. You are not broken. Your child is not broken. And no, you did not raise your child to be this way. What you are seeing is not a moral failure, bad parenting, or a “spoiled kid.” It is emotional immaturity meeting neurological ov